May 15, 2007
Tudor's'Total Effect Talk Show on
http://www.ubroadcast.com/listen.php station 207
Tudors'Total Effect Talk show is an inspirational program that will explore a plethora of factors that contribute to the total effect you project of yourself and your business.
The poet Robert Burns said it best " ah for the giftie gie us to see ourselves as others see us" Like it or not folks we are all sending a message all of the time.
It doesn't matter if you are talking on the phone,walking in the park sitting in a restaurant, dashing off an e-mail or playing a game of golf, your message is being sent.
The question is---what message do you want to send?
It is very important to remember---you do not get a second chance to make a first impression. It is also important to remember first impressions last-forever.
When people first come into contact with you it takes them less than 5 seconds to form an opinion of you. 58% of the opinion will come from your appearance.
Your clothing, your posture, your facial expression your cleanliness or slovenliness will impress and attract or disgust and repel people long before you have even had a chance to speak to them.
Let's stop to think about this for a moment. Imagine yourself walking through the park. As you approach the spot you have chosen to sit and relax you notice two elderly gentlemen. One is a dirty unshaven shabbily dressed individual, the other a clean well dressed well groomed man. Which one will you choose to sit nearer too? The dirty old bum or the elderly gentleman? You have never seen or spoken to either before yet you have formed an opinion and taken action based on appearance only. Perhaps the elderly gentleman is a child molester who was just released from prison and is deciding what to do next. Perhaps the dirty old bum is a retired financier who has decided he doesn't have to impress anyone because he is rich and he has decided to just be himself ! The point is each has an image they project, each ones' appearance has an effect !
When you get close enough to speak to someone 35% of your message will be interpreted by the manner of your speech, eye contact, the pitch of your voice, the speed, the volume and especially your emotion. are sending messages. Is there laughter or sadness in your voice? Is confidence or insecurity being projected?
As strange as it may seem only 7% of your message comes from the words you choose. However your choice of words is vitally important. The first thing you say will attract or repel your listener ! Positive words invite your listeners to entertain your message. Negative words, slang vulgarity and profanity will repel your listeners. When you speak be careful not to mumble, stutter or repeat yourself, these habits tell your listener you are insecure.
Your Total Effect Talk show is all about how to communicate effectively to get what you want out of the business of life and the life of business. Wether you are talking to friends, family, business associates and or especially yourself, effective communication is vital to your success.
n my company Tudor's Total Effect Coaching I start with the premise that everything about you is a form of communication. The image you create of and for yourself will determine how well you communicate with others. It is a well known fact most people do not get what they want out of life simply because they do not know what they want. Effective communication techniques empower you to identify what you want, clarify what you want and satisfy your desires.
My programs help people learn how to conduct the business of life and the life of business with a highly productive less stressful style.
On Tudors' Total Effect talk show I will be interviewing experts in many different fields. Their messages will help you create and project your desired total effect.Upcoming interviews will cover topics from A to Z . Topics will include experts on attitude and the vital role it plays in our road to success. Color, how it influences you and your associates. The topics of humor and music will also be explored. The all important topic of etiquette and how it will enhance your total effect is on the line upas well. We will also discuss how to dress for success, disgusting habits to avoid, time management, stress management and a plethora of others. The show is dedicated to discussing topics of interest to listeners. Listener requested topics will be added to the line up !. Please e-mail your requests to firstname.lastname@example.org
The first guest on Tudors' Total effect talk show will be an expert who creates moods and sends messages through the universal language of music. Dave Anthony owner of Metro Cities Radio, an internet based radio station group at http://www.wrtro.com will be joining us to share his insight on how to create and project a carefully selected image to attract your target audience.
Dave comes to us with over 27 years experience in the broadcasting industry.He is a master of his craft producing fun to listen to program mixes, news you can use and highly entertaining informative specials. Dave will share his insights on how music affects your mood, sends messages and contributes to your total effect .
Tudors' Toatal Effect Talk show will be launching on http://www.ubroadcast.com/listen.php station 207 in the very near future. In the mean time be sure to check it out at http://www.wbzzw.com, home page, explore the website and listen to the stations. Also be sure to check out the blogs and pod casts and watch for alerts to upcoming events.
This is JT Coach Host of Tudors' Total Effect Talk show. reminding you -everything about you is a form of communication !